chore(memory): consolidate scattered feedback/project/reference files

Compressed memory store 104 -> 71 files via four passes:

- Syncro: 19 scattered feedback_syncro_* files merged into 3 rule files
  (api/billing/workflow) + an on-demand feedback_syncro_history.md for
  incident detail, quotes, and tech/product ID tables.
- Four near-duplicate merges: Howard paste-safety, Pluto build server,
  Howard backend deferral, IX server access (ssh+tailscale).
- Per-cluster rule/state/history split applied to GuruConnect (2->1),
  Dataforth (3->2), Cascades (7->3), GuruRMM (13->3).
- New reference_resource_map.md: single auto-loaded cheatsheet for
  "do I have access to X and how do I connect from this machine?"
- MEMORY.md rewritten to match the new layout.

Health: broken backlinks 8->7, overlap clusters 12->5, orphans 17->0.

.claude/memory/user_font_preference.md

@@ -0,0 +1,14 @@
+---
+name: user-font-preference
+description: Mike prefers Lucida Console as his terminal/editor font
+metadata: 
+  node_type: memory
+  type: user
+  originSessionId: 0f674028-fca4-4ab4-95c7-aaf47083b031
+---
+
+Mike's preferred monospace font is **Lucida Console**.
+
+Apply when configuring terminal fonts, editor fonts, or any UI font choice
+where a monospace face is needed and Mike hasn't specified a different one
+for that context.