wiki+memory: consolidate kittle-design -> kittle (redirect stub); add feedback memories (syncro preview, refresh-first, autonomy scope)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

.claude/memory/MEMORY.md

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 - [No manufactured guardrails on our products](feedback_no_manufactured_guardrails.md) — At Mikes request on GuruRMM/GuruConnect/ClaudeTools, just execute; stop only for genuinely irreversible/destructive ops (with a heads-up). Read the actual code/state before claiming something is disallowed or a security hole.
 - [Stream-of-thought design convos](feedback_stream_of_thought_design.md) — Mike brainstorms features free-form, adding requirements iteratively; Claude validates/sharpens as a design partner but does NOT build until an explicit go, then captures parked threads durably (PARKED_*.md + todos) for a later /shape-spec.
 - [RMM Thoughts backlog](feedback_rmm_thoughts_backlog.md) — GuruRMM ideas from Mike & Howard go in projects/msp-tools/guru-rmm/docs/RMM_THOUGHTS.md (Status: Raw); pipeline thought -> discuss -> spec (/shape-spec) -> roadmap. Don't build until an explicit go.
+- [Syncro preview mandatory](feedback_syncro_preview_mandatory.md) — preview+confirm every Syncro write, including internal notes
+- [Refresh session history first](feedback_refresh_session_history_first.md) — read prior incident logs before acting; do not re-remediate already-handled accounts
+- [Autonomy scope](feedback_autonomy_scope.md) — confirm only for client-affecting actions; internal docs/wiki/ClaudeTools = act autonomously